Monday, March 09, 2009

Shit happens

I never wanted extra responsibility and I hate being accused of things that i did not do.

But if people trust me and have their believes in me, and if i have no chance to reject it, I will take it and i will do it to the best as i can. 

2 weeks ago, I was appointed the Project Manager for my Project Management subject where my group consists of other 6 members. I was assigned to the post and was never given a chance to reject it. So i took it and then..... shit happens.

Don't get me wrong. I have NO problem with my group members. In fact, I am very grateful with everyone in the group - they are doing their job, everyone is responsible and everyone is able to communicate with one another openly and suggesting ideas is just great! I couldn't ask for more. 

but.... 

i was being back-stabbed and accused by another manager for being offensive towards him and childish when all i did was just asking him to confirm his group's concept so that my group members know what they need to work on. (FYI, his group is my agency. So as their production team, my group need to work on their concept) Is that too much to ask? or is it offensive of me to ask him for the concept confirmation? I should be the one offended from his way of speaking and there he goes - accusing me to be childish and competitive when he's the one that's being competitive and offensive. Then he make me his reason for wanting to quit as the project manager for his group. So now, i am basically a bitch to his group members for making him quit as their leader......

WOW! seriously i did not know i have such power to remove someone from a position by just asking a question! 

But seriously, I am sick of all this political stuff. I hate being accuse of things i did not do. why oh why do i need to meet such people?

Where's my ticket to paradise?




11 comments:

Dann said...

At times, SHIT happens...
Dun feel too bad about it, that person is a SHIT anyway. =x

e-leen said...

dann: i really miss those KDU days when we can go bowling and arcade center between classes! and the gunz and all those mamak sessions.....

Huey said...

Duh? There are really childish guys in the world - there are even more in the real world. :)

Jwan Heah said...

furget him! not worth your worries really.

e-leen said...

huey: yea. and surprisingly, he'smuch older than me. and yea i do agree that there are more in the real world.

jwan heah: thanks. but i still hav to work with him for another 3months... still hav to bare with it .....

H e n r i c k said...

Wow.. that guy so dramatic ke? Let him quit lor... he so want to ban yao yeng by dropping the position. Let him be la.. I bet he won't simply quit that way oso.. he just saja want to ban yao yeng only.

Yea.. miss those KDU times when we are all in the same group for our final project. :D

e-leen said...

henrick: yealo. i think i should award him Mr Drama King. aahhaha

Dann said...

where we our break takes an hour instead of 15mins. =P

e-leen said...

dann: yea yea! especially that OBC's class. (btw, its OBC or OCB or some other initial?)

H e n r i c k said...

The name is Ooi Beng Chong - Oh Bak Chang (OBC).. so meaning you spelled it correctly :P

e-leen said...

henrick: AH i am correct. so i am not really that blur after all... ahahhahah thanks for the confirmation :D